If there is ever a term that I have come to loathe, besides "swagger," it's "grown and sexy." It's not that I'm trying to be a hypocrite because I've used it when appropriate, though sparingly, when necessary. It's just that "grown and sexy" has been interpreted by some of us who are in the mature age range as all that can include sex and tackiness simultaneously. And with that description, I present to you the video for H-Town and--for all intents and purposes--Jodeci with their puzzling collaboration "Knockin' Your Heels." Surprisingly, K-Ci is the only one who looks as though he can pull the whole situation off. Every else seems to look as though they're minutes away from reaching for some Advil since we all know how tender backs can be as we get older when crawling all over hot young thangs. All of this nostalgia really makes me yearn for some sad, love-sick, depressed Mary J. Blige. Sigh.